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On hate and unavailable jerks

Dear Coquette, How the hell can you NOT hate someone who abused you for 18 years? If you can’t imagine yourself not hating someone, that means you’ve allowed that hate to become a part of your identity. You believe the hate you feel is an integral and inseparable part of you, but I promise, it’s […]

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Dear Coquette, My best friend is dating my crush. How do I deal with it?Un-crush, or disaster will follow. How can you tell the difference between bad timing and a jerk?If it’s obvious to you that it’s bad timing, then that’s probably what it is. If he’s trying to convince you that it’s bad timing, […]

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