I’ve been fucking the same guy for a year and a half, and for the past year I’ve been asking for him to commit to a relationship. He says he doesn’t know why, but he can’t. He’s “emotionally unavailable” or something— his words, not mine. I’m the twat who loves him, and I haven’t been able to bring myself to dump him yet. Help.

He doesn’t love you. He never will. Let that shit hurt for a hot minute, stop having sex with him, and then move the fuck on.