When me and my ex broke up, I lent her some money for new furniture, a computer and such, which she promised to pay back when she got financially stable again. That was 8 months ago and in the few e-mail conversations we’ve had, she always mentions how bad her money situation is and that she can’t pay me back yet. Which I would be fine with, if it weren’t for a friend of hers who recently told me she has a steady job again, flies to her boyfriend who lives abroad every other weekend, goes horseback riding and more seemingly expensive stuff. Now maybe her boyfriend pays for that stuff, I don’t know, but I can’t shake the feeling she’s lying about her situation. What would be the best way to handle this?

Tell the bitch to pay up.