I’m empty. What do I fill myself with?
First, hope. Then some strength. After that, motivation. Then finally, purpose.
How do you fake being secure? I don’t have any idea on how to even fake not despising myself.
The trick isn’t to fake being secure. The trick is to embrace your insecurity. Part of that process is forgiving yourself and just letting it all be okay. (It’s not easy to do, but it’s a much better use of your energy than faking anything.)
Why does it bother me so much when he follows his apologies with “I didn’t intend to hurt you”?
Because he’s trying to excuse himself by invalidating your pain or he’s confessing that you were never supposed to find out in the first place. Either way, fuck his intentions. They don’t mean shit.
Does Walter White have narcissistic personality disorder?
More like antisocial personality disorder. (And how are you just now watching Breaking Bad?)
Lately when I’m almost asleep, I wake up suddenly, filled with shock and horror that I really, actually have to die someday.
Yeah. That’s a thing that happens. Terrifying, isn’t it?
I just had my heart broken for the first time and holy shit. I literally have chest pain. These chemicals surging through my body are the worst. What the fuck. Ow ow owwww make it stop.
Feel that shit. Feel it all the way deep down. Feel it hard. That exquisite pain is one of the most raw and uniquely human emotions you can experience, and someday it will be useful to you.
Why do our moms hate Hillary so much?
They’d never admit it, but the real reason is internalized misogyny.
Which is worse: being the dumbest person in the room, or the smartest person in the room?
Depends on the room.
Until you have the ‘let’s be exclusive’ talk, all’s fair in the dating wars, right?
Wrong. All is not fair, so it’s best you follow the golden rule: Do unto those you are dating as you would have them do unto you.
He’s never heard of Nick Cave. This is a dealbreaker, right? I mean, come on.
That’s not a dealbreaker. That’s an opportunity. (Don’t be a snob.)
What kind of drinks would you personally order at a dive bar and what would you order at a more upscale place?