I cheated, but I don’t feel guilty. I really like the guy I’m with and I wasn’t looking for something more or different than what I already have. I’m not sure why I did it, but I feel like I probably will again. Is there something wrong with me? It seems everyone else is so sure cheating is wrong. I understand in theory, but I wouldn’t be upset if my guy messed around with someone else, so I guess I just don’t get what the big deal is. Help?
You’re so full of shit.
You cheated because it felt good, you’ll do it again because you have no impulse control, and you don’t feel guilty because you have sociopathic tendencies.
If you don’t care whether your guy messes around with someone else, that’s fine, but this isn’t about the sex. It’s about the lie. Would you be cool with it if your guy repeatedly and maliciously lied to you? Didn’t think so.
Feel free to be in an open relationship, but you have to establish that before fucking other people. Have some fucking integrity.