Been with my boyfriend for two years. For the past 8 months, he’s become a jealous, self-involved mess. If it isn’t in his immediate interests, he doesn’t pay it any attention whatsoever. He decides what we see at the movies, where we eat out, what we talk about, etc. I’ve alerted him to it but, after many many crocodile tears and claims he’ll change, I’m still here wondering why I’m in a relationship with someone who genuinely doesn’t care about my needs as a person. Obvious advice, please?
Grow a fucking spine.