Is it wrong to have sex with someone just because you know they really want to have sex with you? A literal sexual favor? I know this question makes me sound like a douche, but there’s this really nice guy that I’m just not interested in, and he never gets laid and has sort of a low opinion of himself. I feel like having sex with me would be good for him. Thoughts?
If you have sex with this guy, it will confuse him. He is guaranteed to misinterpret your intentions, and I promise there will be emotional blowback for which you are not prepared. Shit will get messy.
One way or another, you’ll end up having to tell him that it was just a pity fuck. Trust me, if you think he has a low opinion of himself now, just wait until that news hits him like a ton of pathetic bricks.
Even if you tell him up front, you’re still not doing him any favors. Not really. He needs confidence, not consolation prize pussy.
Sure, he’ll be agreeable to getting laid, but what happens if you’re honest about your intentions and then he can’t get it up? What happens if he underperforms? Are you ready to deal with the emotional shit storm? I think not.
I’m just showing you what’s at stake. I’m not telling you what to do here, because this isn’t about right or wrong. It’s your vagina. Fuck who you wanna fuck, but you have to be willing to accept the consequences of your actions, which in this case could very easily be the end of the friendship.
You’ve been warned.