How is that abused men are revictimized by DV hotlines and shelters (The Helpseeking Experiences of Men Who Sustain Intimate Partner Violence: An Overlooked Population and Implications for Practice by Emily M. Douglas and Denise A. Hines. J. Fam Violence. Aug 2011; 26(6): 473–485.) but aren’t considered victims of sexism? or holding up women’s ability to abuse at will?
Just fuck off already. Abused men aren’t being revictimized by domestic violence hotlines and shelters. That’s not a thing.
Men’s rights activists like to wave around that bullshit study as an excuse to demand equal time on domestic violence issues, but I actually read the damn thing, and it’s a fucking joke. The sample size is tiny, the correlations are ridiculous, and the results are statistically useless.
Basically, a couple of social workers who wanted to justify their PhDs got some federal grant money to conduct the academic equivalent of this gif:
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If you really want to help male victims of abuse and domestic violence, stop using them as a gotcha and start listening to what they tell you they need. Even if they are being revictimized in this context, something tells me that labeling it sexism won’t do much material good.