He uses me for sex. And I adore him, so I let him. Because I’ll take what I can get. We never had a ‘relationship’ and we’ve technically gone on one date. I don’t know why I’m so hooked on him, but every he texts me at 3 a.m. I trot on over there like a lap dog. Am I so pathetic? Should I just drop him cold turkey? I don’t know what to do with him but I don’t know if I can let my pathetic little dream go.

Yes, you’re pathetic.

Yes, you should drop him cold turkey.

Yes, you can let your dream go.

Yes, we’ve all been there.