Is it better to have my first time with someone that I (might) love or a friend?
This is like asking if it’s better to have a peanut butter and jelly or a ham sandwich. They are both equally good, but at any given moment, one of them is clearly the better choice.
I have no way of knowing whether you’re in a PB&J situation or if you need something with a little meat. Whichever you decide, you’ll instantly know the second you take your first bite.
This is what happens when I answer questions after skipping lunch.