Advice

On emotional blackmail.

Hey. I feel really dumb asking this. I just don’t know where else to get opinions. OK. So. My boyfriend and I have been dating for 2 years. We loved eachother in the begining. Everything was great. But now, i just feel like the relationship has died, and we just keep dragging it on when in reality there’s nothing left. we just fightandfightandfight, and fake being happy. And I’m just sick of it. I broke it off with him a few months ago, and then we got back together because i felt bad for him. He told me he was oging to kill himself. i don’t know what to do. I want to be happy and live my life, and not feel trapped, but he’s stopping me. And I don’t know how to fix this.

sorry that’s so long.

Not long at all, actually. Quite to the point. I’ll be equally brief.

Break up with him immediately.

Never put up with emotional blackmail. He’s not going to kill himself. In fact, fuck him for saying that to you. His emotional state is not your responsibility. You don’t have to fix anything.

Just cut him out of your life.

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