I’m 21 years old and I haven’t had sex since my high school prom. If you want to skip the mental math that’s over 3 years. I’ve only ever slept with one person and I’ve just never been very confident sexually. Despite being pretty cute and having plenty of opportunities to get laid, I’ve never followed through. It’s not that I don’t want to have sex, it’s just got to a point where I feel like it’s been so long that I don’t even know how to get out there and do it. I’m 21 and it’s just sort of expected that I know what I’m doing, and I don’t. Being sooo inexperienced is keeping me from getting what I want. What do I do?
You’re overthinking it. Relax. Take a xanax. Make him put on a condom, and then insert tab A into slot B. As long as it feels good, you’re doing it right. It’s really not all that complicated.
Take solace in the fact that almost nobody knows what they’re doing at twenty-one. They all act like they do, but everyone outside of the porn industry is still pretty much a beginner.