I’m 18. I have had many experiences where I could have lost my virginity, but I haven’t yet because I am absolutely terrified of becoming emotionally attached to the guy. I don’t want this “connection” everyone talks about. I just want to get fucked. How can I lose my virginity without this happening?
Oh my god, who is filling your head with this ridiculous bullshit? I promise, his penis will not ejaculate a magical love potion. You will not suddenly become emotionally attached. It doesn’t work like that.
The “connection” that everyone is talking about probably refers to the neurophysiological response during orgasm that involves the hormone oxytocin.
Some call it the cuddle chemical, and theoretically it plays a role in pair bonding. Oxytocin may be responsible for giving you the warm and fuzzies after you cum, but don’t worry. It’s not going to make you fall in love, especially if you just want to get laid.
You’ve got absolutely nothing to worry about.