About a year ago, I met a guy and immediately felt a connection and promptly began dating him. He was absolutely perfect for me and I was smitten. We’re still together today.
Recently, however, I’ve found that I’ve evolved into a completely different person over the past 12 months and he’s still the man I met a year ago. Our conversations bore me to tears and we no longer share many interests. I just don’t need him in my life anymore and I want to end things.
But two things are stopping me.
1. He’s emotionally fragile and I’m not sure I can handle hurting him.
2. The sex is fantastic.
What should I do?
Ugh. You’re not a completely different person than the one you were twelve months ago. You’re just fickle, and it took you a year to get bored.
Here’s what you should do:
1. Either break up with him or shut the fuck up.
2. Get over yourself.