I have trust issues with cell phones due to my parent’s divorce two years ago. Therefore, I am put to ease when my boyfriend allows me to check his text messages. Lately he hasn’t been letting me and it’s started bothering me. Can’t he just let me so that I don’t get eaten alive with anxiety?
Fuck no, and fuck you for thinking it’s okay to check your boyfriend’s phone. Your parents’ divorce may be the reason for your trust issues, but that’s no excuse for crazy bitch behavior.
Trust him or end the relationship. Either way, your petty high school jealousy doesn’t justify invading anyone’s privacy.