is being a virgin something i should be embarrassed about? i can’t wait to have sex; i have nothing against sex before marriage or hooking up one night for a tasty fuck. i’ve just never been woo’ed by anyone. and i don’t want my first time to be with someone who’ll just forget about me. am i being stupid, or is this reasonable?
Being a virgin is nothing to be embarrassed about, although using the phrase “tasty fuck” certainly is. Have sex, don’t have sex. Either way, worry less about whether you’ll be forgotten and focus more on what you’d like to remember.