My boyfriend of ~ 2 years told me he couldn’t marry me and we broke up. But now he still wants to talk to me everyday and still stop by my house. I know too that we were not a right match, but part of me just wants to cut him off so he understands what he is missing. Petty?
Not petty. Necessary.
He doesn’t get to break up with you and still creep around at his convenience. Fuck that. Tell him to lose your number and forget where you live.
This isn’t about him understanding what he’s missing. Don’t make it about him. This is about you moving on and enjoying whatever’s coming next.