How young do you consider too young to lose your virginity? I am 14, and recently had sex with my boyfriend of about two months. We were smart about it, and I have legitimate feelings for the guy. I don’t regret it at all. Do I even need to pay attention when people get on to me for “being young and stupid”?

Too young? It really depends. Could be thirteen. Could be eighteen. Age is just a number, and the teens are a tricky set of years.

So yeah, you lost your virginity at a young age. So what? You were smart, safe, and you don’t regret being with someone for whom you have legitimate feelings.

Trust me, kiddo. You did better than most.

That’s not to say you won’t fuck up in the future. What they say is true. Everyone your age is young and stupid, but that’s perfectly okay. You’re supposed to be.

You’re gonna do some stupid shit. Fine. Just keep your wits about you as often as possible, and whatever you do, don’t get pregnant.