I loaned out my copy of The Ethical Slut and never got it back, so I bought a used copy online. On page 21, somebody had underlined “we don’t have a polyamorous Miss Manners telling us how to do our thing courteously and respectfully ” and scribbled COKE TALK in the margins. The feeling I got from that bit of marginalia was worth every goddamn dollar I spent and then some.

I love everything about this.