Ok. I guess I need to give a little back story. I’m an attractive looking lady, if I must say. Not crazy stunning, but I have some shit going for me in the looks department. Anyways.

This guy was at a mutual friends house and we really hit it off. Flirting and stuff the whole night. When it was time to go, he invited me back to his place. We got blazed and had the best sex ever. Then we chilled until the morning. Stayed up all night talking, it was awesome. Thing is, I only want this dude for more sex. He was funny to hang with, too. But nothing more. We even talked about how we both don’t want to be in relationships.

I didn’t get a chance to leave my number, I forgot. I gave it to the mutual friend to give him. She texted me telling me that his phone got cut off or some shit.

But if he wanted to fuck again, he could have just asked her to ask me to go over, right?

I know I shouldn’t care so much but I came 5 or 6 times. Such amazing sex. Would it seem desperate if I tried to contact him through the mutual friend. I just want to fuuuuuck.

I’ve never had this happen before. Usually guys find a way to get in touch with me. I’m not saying I’m whoring it up with anyone that will sleep with me. I just like sex. And this guy seemed like a potential fuck buddy.

Well, this has gotten entirely too long. I just wanted to ask you advice, because any advice I’ve seen you give has been extremely intelligent and I usually agree with it.

Coketalk me.

First of all, you write with a strong voice. You strike me as a woman, not a girl. That being the case, I wonder why you’re asking such an obvious question. Six orgasms? Fuck yes, you should chase this guy down! Grade-A, USDA approved, no-strings-attached cock is harder to find than we’d all like to admit. Stop worrying about what other people think, and do what feels good.

One red flag, though — I find it strange that the mutual friend didn’t give you his number. Actually, the excuse that “his phone got cut off” sounds like utter bullshit, and I’d bet half your orgasms that this girl doesn’t want you two hooking up again.

Odds are that he did ask for your contact information, but she probably cock-blocked him just like she did you.

Confront this mutual friend. Make her give you his number whether it works or not. If she keeps beating around the bush with more lame excuses, tell her that you and this guy talked about having a threesome with her. I guarantee she’ll be dialing that number faster than you can spell ménage à trois.