So, my boyfriend wants me to give him a blowjob. I love him, and we’ve had sex, but they just really aren’t my thing. I told him no, and stood by it.

Now he’s saying I’m a hypocrite, because he ate me out once.

Am I being a hypocrite? I mean, I don’t think I’ll do it, even if I am, but still.

Maybe he’ll hear it better from you.

Oh, and just so you know, he’s 18, I’m 17, we’ve been together 10 months.

This question is cuter than a basket of puppies. High school sweethearts who had actual sex before oral sex? It’s darling.

Listen, sweetie. You’re not being a hypocrite, you’re just being a bit old fashioned. That’s fine. It’s your body. You decide what goes in what hole.

Your boyfriend is showing his immaturity by expecting reciprocity for oral sex, and you should never feel obligated to participate in a sex act.

That being said, you can’t expect guys not to want blowjobs. They all want blowjobs. All the time. Always. Nothing will change that, and nothing will stop your boyfriend from getting the blowjobs he wants.

As awful as it may seem, this is the reason your boyfriend will eventually break up with you. He’ll never admit it, maybe not even to himself, but once he’s sure you’ll never give him head, he’ll be on his way out.

This is probably more brutal truth than you wanted to hear, but you need to hear it. Better you figure it out now than spend your early twenties wondering why guys keep breaking up with you.