Do you feel like a strong and self-realized man could still be against open relationships? Or is that by definition impossible to you?

Chill out, vanilla bean. Don’t get all snippy because you’re on team monogamy.

Self-realization isn’t about a particular belief system. It’s about being in tune with who you are. It’s about a certain awareness and fulfillment of character.

All I said was that it takes a strong, self-realized man to handle an open relationship, and it does. That in no way implies that self-realization is exclusive to folks in open relationships.

A strong, self-realized man could very easily be against open relationships for himself, but unless it was his true nature to be a total asshole, he still wouldn’t be against open relationships for others.